I will love you
unconditionally.

JULY 2025
FEBRUARY 2026
JANUARY 2026
JULY 2024

BEFORE WE MET

Trevor to Trevor

Hi Trevor! You're getting married! You have dreamed of this day your entire life, and it's here. You grow up being a steady hand for those around you in this crazy thing you call life.

The love you've found is a reflection of the man you've become: patient, loyal, and full of heart. Marriage won't always be easy, but you were built for it. You know how to show up, how to listen, and how to love through the hard days just as much as the good ones. The same quiet strength that others have leaned on will be the foundation of the home you're about to build together. Cherish every moment of this new chapter, Trevor, the big celebrations and the small, ordinary Tuesday nights alike. This is what you've been growing toward all along, and it's only just beginning.

Alex to Alex

You are a soft soul in a hard-ass world. As you grow up, you will face the good and bad of it. You will also learn what matters in the process: taking care of those you love, keeping them close, and making memories with them that you carry forever. One day, you will meet someone to love in a whole new way. He will inspire you to be a better person and balance your high energy with some much-needed calm. Embrace him with everything you have, no matter what. He is worth it.

p.s. When you want to go blonde (again), just don't.

january 2022

Our first date

Reconnected after first meeting in 2019, Trevor invited Alex on a little gay adventure. Lattes at High Tides Coffee. Thrifting in the Crossroads. Dinner in Cancun... the Mexican restaurant in Warrensburg.

may 2022

Boyfriends

On the steps in front of Trevor's mom's house, the two made it official. When they told his mom, she said, "Oh, I thought you already were."

april 2023

Our first place

After long trips between Warrensburg and Blue Springs, Alex and Trevor moved in together in an apartment in downtown Lee's Summit.

NOVEMBER 2023

Pet parents

Then came the diva herself. Mishka, a rescue frenchie-pit looking for her forever home. "The Moosh" is a cuddle-obsessed, queen of the castle and more than just part of their story — she's family.

MARCH 2025

Fiancés

Perusing the couple's favorite antique store in Chicago, Trevor turned around to find Alex on one knee, a little brown cowboy hat in his hand. Inside was the ring Alex had been dropping hints about for six months.